Today I sit and wonder with a few people in mind. I must have hurt them in the past but I just don't know what I did.. I lie here and wonder. With only my side of the story I am missing key facts and will always be wondering what happened. I won't be able to fix the problem with missing pieces to the puzzle. Why is this:
Communication
Somehow there is a gap in communication between two people. One person desires to give up on the relationship it be friend or family instead of giving feedback.
One person may not even be aware of areas to improve on. How can one improve if they don't know what to improve on?
Commitment
If you walk away from any relationship
out of pure frustration how does that help build character? Does that solve the problem in the long run? How will the other person remember you? Does the other person even know they did anything wrong.
These are all things to consider before walking away from a relationship because chances are good the other person doe not even know there is something wrong. The issue may turn out to be a simple correction or even a non-issue if there is effective communication used in the relationship.
Communication
Somehow there is a gap in communication between two people. One person desires to give up on the relationship it be friend or family instead of giving feedback.
One person may not even be aware of areas to improve on. How can one improve if they don't know what to improve on?
Commitment
If you walk away from any relationship
out of pure frustration how does that help build character? Does that solve the problem in the long run? How will the other person remember you? Does the other person even know they did anything wrong.
These are all things to consider before walking away from a relationship because chances are good the other person doe not even know there is something wrong. The issue may turn out to be a simple correction or even a non-issue if there is effective communication used in the relationship.

Amen. Very true!
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